Adulting
As much as I love being a mom I try really hard to not make it my entire personality. I wanted to also share some stories that involve just being an adult and figuring out that part of life. Being a mom will be sprinkled into it because once your a mom you are always a mom but taking care of yourself and your marriage is the most important.
2024 Reflection
March, 2025
I am not someone who normally analyzes the previous year or makes goals for the following year. I think you should just start when you want to, if I have an idea it’s best to just start. The only way to get anything done is just start. But the transition from 2024 to 2025 feels big. 2024 was not kidding, the hardest year of my life and I probably had the biggest transformation too.
Everything my Husband Does
February 13, 2025
They say millennial dads are 3 times more involved than previous generations but I still hear lots of comments about how people are surprised of the very basic things my husband does. So here's a giant list of everything my husband does so we can raise the standard.
Keeping Our Sex Life Alive
February 14, 2025
I asked for journal requests and got this topic, which I am always happy to talk about. I was struggling though which angle to write it from though so it took me a bit to write. I decided to write it almost as a list but there are details so if it weirds you out to read about it, this is your warning. Not as many details as I thought but I do list examples.
Update: How 20 minutes a day changed my marriage
January 27, 2025
One of my first journals was “How 20 minutes a day changed our marriage”, if you haven’t read it yet, go read it. It was about how we took 20 minutes a day after our toddler went to bed to just talk, before dishes before shower ect. Now it is about 6 months later and this is where we are at.
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How 20 minutes a day changed my marriage
August 27, 2024
When you have young kids you and your partner usually go through a room mate phase. We definitely did, we kicked ass as parenting partners, ensuring everything was done, the kids were happy, the bills were paid, we hung out as a family and did fun things but we didn’t have a huge romantic connection.
